“Make it the task of your mourning to explore what he had expected of you, had hoped for you, had wished to happen to you.”
Rainer Maria Rilke (via Why We Look by Marvin Heiferman)
Farewell my beloved Alistair, cat whisperer, in-house art critic.
We had many conversations in the months since his diagnosis with pancreatic cancer about what I might, could or should do after the inevitable, what he wanted me to do. In a nutshell: keep painting, sharing my art, teach, and no big decisions for a year.
For three and a half decades he gave me the space and encouragement to become, to find, and to be me. That doesn’t end, though it changes.
What wonderful wise words they are Marion. You both had the best of times, wonderful experiences , and you shall carry on being the best of yourself in his memory.
Sending much love to you.
I am so sorry for your loss. Wish you lot of strenght. Annemieke
Such lovely words Marion. We both send our love and thoughts.
I lost my father a few weeks ago. a lot of unravelling seems to be happening – I am so sorry for your loss and send you strength, empathy and a massive hug. x
Oh, Marion… I am deeply sorry for your loss of Alistair…a marvelous art critic and loved life companion. May your grief be balanced and tempered by the depth of your love, and may fond memories cheer you when you most need it.
May God’s deep comfort and the Shepherd’s tender care enfold you as you grieve the Cat Whisperer.
Tenderly,
Laurie Cordaro
Augusta, GA
Dear Marion,
In fact, you HAVE made one big decision — to carry on.
I am very sorry for your loss.
Grace and peace,
Susan
((HUGS)). What a beautiful relationship….keep your memories and speak of and to Alistair often. His presence remains within.
I am so sorry for your loss. You stated it beautifully in how you carry him in your heart going forward. It will fill the emptiness and provide you comfort.
I am so sad for your loss. Do speak of him often, Marion. Keep his wishes for you close to your heart and follow through. Read Rainer Marie Rilke’s words often to remind you. Sending hugs.
So sorry to hear of your loss. Prayers for you and the rest of your family.
Cindy Petty
Marion I am so very sorry for your loss. Though I never met him, your words and his images show someone with an enormous heart. Sending you love from across the world ❤️🌸❤️